These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do. No one could compare to the man I married. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. I need suggestions to handld the neurotic behavior, ocd, and opinions. We've always had a very loving and intimate relationship, but the physical absence really has made a negative impact.
But is it the path that will make you the happiest. God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. I get it; I just don't buy into it. The hospital had become, by his own admission, his "family", and he had virtually abandoned us to this demanding career. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity.
I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule. You have to be willing to share him with his education process. If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. Ask him if he's not seeing you to not commit. Last year I trained for and ran a marathon, which was a pretty good distraction, but with the move recently and work being quieter than usual I'm finding it tougher than I have before. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom.
So it is going to be over anyway. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. Keep me posted, please. I have to say that I am a lucky woman. Even after being in a relationship I have to take all the decision alone. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. The first year is mostly research with regular hours followed by those daunting 3 years.